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Let’s face it; in today’s time of excessive competition, we have all started giving importance to certain things that should not hold that much importance to our lives at all. The reality is, we all are going to die one day; do you believe that the things that you are giving your life and struggles for at the moment will even help you even after your death?? If yes then keep on going, and if no then it means that you need to change certain things in your life.
The first step that you must take to change your life and be successful is the intention of changing yourself. There will be no benefit of reading or even sharing this article if you are not going to follow it at all. Forget about following it, you can never change your life and attitudes until or unless you yourself want to change. So, forget about us, forget about this article, just focus on your intentions and work hard towards it. Hence, the first step to make yourself successful and happy, is by making the intention that you will change yourself and your attitudes, because without any initiative from you nothing can be achieved.
2. People will never help YOU
The next point that you should remember is that when it comes to you, a number of people will find all the negative points to criticize you. If you are reading this article with the mindset that you will become successful or that by following this article people will like you then please stop reading it and leave. The biggest truth of life is that people will always find faults when it comes to other people they see and discuss. However, it is not such a bad thing though, because by doing this you will determine what kind of people deserves your time and friendship.
3. You are your self’s enemy
Always remember that at the end of the day, only you have the power to destroy or develop your life and your personality. This is your life, you are the one who feels the pain, you are the one who feels the happiness, you are the one who makes the efforts, and you are the one who will die, so why are you giving power to other people when it comes to you?
To make your life a successful place you have to be your own mentor and teacher. Only you know your weaknesses and strengths, there might be other people who know you and your personality too, however, when it comes to having power to do something or to achieve something then that only lies with you and no one else.
4. Never give up
There might come a time when you will fall down again and again in life, but remember that a failure is a person who accepts this fall and just never tries again in his life.